Sorry for Ghosting You

Hi, it's been a while - four years, actually - and I wanted to apologize for ghosting you.  It was never my intention to abandon this space. Over the past few years I'd thought about writing, but I didn't know what to say. There seemed to be enough people shouting and sharing their opinions, so … Continue reading Sorry for Ghosting You

Why You Shouldn’t Triage Your Date

"Welcome to the Emergency Department. What brings you in tonight?" "I'm having chest pain." (I now initiate eye contact and pay more attention) "Okay. [typing noises] When did it start?" "Five days ago." (less concerned now) "Does it hurt more when you breathe or cough?" "Yea. It hurts the worst when I cough." Bingo. You can … Continue reading Why You Shouldn’t Triage Your Date